January 17, 2019
How Sex Toys Effect Your Relationship
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Sex and sex toys
Sex is one of the most important aspects to a relationship as it not only can bring both partners an awful lot of pleasure and satisfaction, but it also shows how much you trust one another; especially when you start to push each other’s boundaries.
There are, of course, times when sex is not a priority. Kids can often drain you of all energy and leave you without much of a sex drive and there are even studies showing that new dads are likely to lose their sex drive. This is where sex toys and experimentation can help to revitalise your sex life with your partner. But sex toys are not just good for people who need to find a new spark. They can help you to both live out fantasies that you have always dreamed of and help you both discover new realms of pleasure.
There is a lot of stigma that surrounds sex toys, but the stigma is waining. but when it is just you and your partner alone in the bedroom, you can open up and begin to talk about and experiment with sex toys.
The Advantages of Sex Toys
When most people think about sex toys, their minds automatically jump to vibrators and replacements for physical contact. But though a small amount of sex toys can simply be used to satisfy urges when you are alone, the vast majority are actually designed to be used to help enhance your relationship and your sex life. A 2016 study conducted by Chapman University’s David Frederick found that men and women who reported being satisfied with their relationship and sexual relationship were more likely to use sex toys.
Here are Some of the advantages to using sex toys as part of sex play include:
- Helping to make sex last longer
- Increasing pleasure for one or both parties
- Enhancing fantasies
- Quicker and more intense orgasms
- Finding new erogenous zones
- Improving trust and communication
Helping Sex Last Longer
If you’re finding that sex is over too quickly and only he is the one reaching climax, then sex toys like cock rings can help with making sex last longer and become more pleasurable for you both. The cock ring helps restrict the flow of blood, meaning it will take him longer than usual to reach his peeking point. The vibrations from the cock ring also provide pleasure for you both during sex. Thus helping sex last longer.
A study from 2005 showed that the average time from penetration to climax is around 5.4 minutes, and we have many products available to help improve your performance if you are falling short.
Increasing pleasure for one or both parties
Though it may take some time to get used to the idea of using sex toys for one or both of you, the thought of sex toys can be extremely arousing. Some toys like dildos and anal beads can be used to help increase pleasure before or even during the main event. Neither are a replacement for your partner, but they can be used to help excite you both and even increase the pleasure of the orgasm in the case of anal beads.
Enhancing fantasies
We all have sexual fantasies and sex toys can play an important role in them. Whether it is being tied up, bringing a whip into play or using a strap-on, using sex toys as part of your fantasy sex can only make them better for you both.
Quicker and more intense orgasms
Vibrators are something that most women are known for using for self-pleasuring, but they can play a role in sex with your partner, especially if they are being used to increase pleasure during anal sex. Using a vibrator on the vagina whilst engaging in anal sex can not only make the experience much more pleasurable for you both, but also lead to quicker and more intense orgasms.
Finding new erogenous zones
One of the things that most people find surprising about using sex toys with their partner is that experimenting with sex toys together can lead to the discovery of new erogenous zones. You may discover that you are turned on by something you never dreamed of, that there are undiscovered points on your body that can make you scream with pleasure when a toy is used or even awaken a new level of pleasure that you didn’t think was possible.
Improving trust and communication
Not every aspect of using sex toys as part of intercourse is about pleasuring your partner. The use of sex toys can actually be an amazing way of improving trust and communication between you both. In order to use sex toys and even push the boundaries of your sexual relationship, trust is key. Trusting that when you have reached your limit and want to stop, your partner will. Trusting that they will not force you to go beyond what you want to experience. Being then able to communicate when you want to stop, what you are enjoying or even if you want more will help you both to enjoy sex more and strengthen your relationship.