Five ways to make sex more fun for him

Most people assume that sex is automatically good for the man when he’s penetrating, but that really isn’t so. He may find some positions very uncomfortable, it may be too dry for him without lubrication or it may be that he has trouble finding pleasure in sex when it is the same day in, day out. So how can you make sex more fun for him? Read on to find out five ways that you can.

1. Oral Sex

Though you may not realise it, but oral sex is something that can really make a big difference to his enjoyment of sex, whether it is a blow job to finish him off after sex or surprise him with a blow job to make it all about him, it can make sex a lot more fun for him. It’s also not necessarily all about sucking straight away, but using your tongue to tease him on the inside of his thighs, flicking the tip with your tongue or sucking on his balls before moving onto the cock, all of it can increase his sensations of pleasure.

2. The Ankles over the shoulders

Though it’s a position you might want to stretch before trying, putting your ankles over your partner’s shoulders so that he can penetrate deeper without having to get bigger. This doesn’t just make sex more fun for him but also for you as well.

3. Taking things to the garden

Sex outside is something that you might be a little unsure about, but it can make sex for him incredibly arousing. Sex outside brings the possibility of getting caught as well as the freedom that comes from lying on the ground and feeling the sun on your naked bodies. It’s also a great way of using the doggy style position so that you both can get the most out of the sun on your backs.

4. Sex in front of the mirror

You wouldn’t have guessed it, but sex in front of the mirror can make sex better for him. For men that enjoy the doggy style position, having sex in front of a mirror lets them see the pleasure registering on your face whilst they get to enjoy taking your from behind. Being able to watch you giving him a blow job in the mirror can only make the experience better for him. As well as just being able to watch the two of your having sex. A mirror can add a fantasy element that you are both acting in a dirty movie.

5. Asking what he wants

It’s the simplest thing in the world, but it is so often overlooked. Asking him what he wants and then giving it to him is guaranteed to make him enjoy whatever it is that he has asked for. It may be that he wants you to dress up, or try a new position. It might even be that he wants to play with a particular sex toy or try some form of kinky game. Whatever it is, it is best to keep an open mind and enjoy giving him something that makes sex more fun for him.

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