December 11, 2019
Are You Getting The Most Out Of Masturbation?
Masturbation is something that is often overlooked when it comes to sex. For most people, it’s a quick form of relief that can help during dry spells, but really it has so much more to offer. Read on to learn how you can get the most out of masturbation.
When you are on your own
Masturbation is a great way to satisfy natural sexual desire. Whether you are in a relationship or single, masturbation can help you climax and get the gratification you need. There are many reasons that you may not be able to have sex. It could be that your partner can’t have sex for medical issues, it could be that you aren’t in a relationship, that your partner is on the other side of the world, or that you are too busy to date right now, whatever it is, masturbation can help with your sexual urges and let you get the release you need.
Masturbation is something that can make people feel quite self-conscious or it could be that you’ve never tried it. In order to get the most out of masturbation, you will need some lubricant and some form of stimulus. For some people imagination or dirty talk is enough stimuli to get you to cum, but for most, an image is needed to help. It could be an erotic picture that your partner has taken, or someone famous that you find attractive. It could be that you need pornography on in order to masturbation, whatever stimulates you is a personal choice. Once you have your stimuli, then the next thing is to make sure you have lube and tissues handy.
Once you are ready to start, don’t simply rush to try and reach the finish line as soon as possible, the moment of climax might feel good, but the build up can enhance the pleasure and you may even find out somethings that you enjoy that your partner can do to you in future.
Let your stimuli work its magic to begin with, allow yourself time to become aroused, paying careful attention to where your pleasure centres are. Do the insides of your thighs start to tingle? Is it your nipples that feel it first? Or is it a warm feeling that beings to pulse and demands the attention of your fingers? Wherever you feel arousal in your body, make sure that you play with yourself there. Gently rub and squeeze your nipples, run your fingers slowly up and down your inner thighs with the softest of touches, but hold off playing with your clit or penis for as long as you can.
When you feel you are ready to start massaging yourself, it’s time to bring in the lube. Lubricants come a wide range of different types which can help to enhance the pleasure of masturbation, especially for men. They also reduce down the danger of friction burns and pain that can be caused.
Make sure that you are using plenty of lube and start slow, explore your own body with your fingers, try flicking, rubbing and squeezing yourself to find out how it feels. A good session of masturbation can help you to discover new elements of foreplay you want to incorporate into sex and help you to unleash pent up sexual frustrations in a healthy way.
When you are enjoying sex with your partner
Masturbation isn’t only good for helping you discover new things you want during foreplay, but it can also be an integral part of sex with your partner. Lubricants are still a must, but the stimuli you chose might be different.
You may also find that masturbation can be used as part of foreplay or part of the main event. When used for foreplay it could be because your partner enjoys watching you play with yourself and gets aroused by watching you get aroused.
When engaging in anal sex, masturbation can also make the sex act more enjoyable for the receiving party, helping to make the whole experience more pleasurable.
If you are going to experiment with masturbation, make sure that you aren’t without proper lubrication, especially if you are going to be masturbating during anal sex.